I'm 30 years old. I used to be a pushover. I used to think things like, "This time, it'll be different!" Until I realized that is almost never the case. One example of this, is letting guys spend the night. Beforehand, it sounds amazing. So romantic and loving. Someone to cuddle, someone to hold. It'll be like heaven except without the dying first. But in reality, there are issues. Issues that are going to make me hate you. Here's why.